Always Be Appreciative

Mr.GoldGames · **Posted:** Sat Aug 12, 2017 9:57 pm

So, I don't think many of you knew this but I was dating a certain girl for almost a month, and today we ended up separating. Now, people will just say "It was only a month man, that wasn't even a relationship" but to me, it was the most amazing time of my life. I just want to put a little rant here for all of you to read to get something off my chest.

I met said girl at my workplace when I was giving her a tour of the college I work at. We exchanged some cute smiles back and forth, and I just knew in my heart that I wanted to meet this person. It was more of a love at first sight kind of thing. I impressed her by doing a funny dance while we were pumping them up for their college year. I didn't get to see her all day until I met her outside of the student building with the same glasses I had on. So I went up to her, joked about us having the same glasses, and we hit it off. Though, I never got her name and she left before I could ask. Then a miracle happened. She found me on Facebook and we just talked and talked and it was fantastic.

From the time me and this girl started dating, we were crazy about each other. Writing long paragraphs back and forth to each other, appreciating each other for our personalities. We would talk about anything and everything from past relationships to what we did during the day. She was such a huge support beam in my life during the small time I knew her. She always cheered me up whenever my life complications got me down, and she always tried to help with the problems I was facing. I would return the favor by always being supportive of her, making sure she was okay, and respecting her at every chance I got. I met her family, and they were absolutely the best people I have ever met as well. I finally asked her to be my girlfriend and thus started what I thought would be a long lasting relationship.

We had so many adventures in the past month we were together, which made us feel like we were together for ages. We FaceTimed almost everyday we didn't hang out, and hung out almost everyday she was off work. It was absolutely amazing, and I couldn't have asked for a better person to be with. However, today that all changed.

She felt as if she rushed into a relationship, and thought that she wasn't ready for one at her current state. She told me that shes grown distant, and that things weren't the same. As if we just slid past everything then fell. She wanted to just be friends for the meantime, and I couldn't do anything but agree with her. Though, I felt the complete opposite. I didn't want to break up with her, but if it made her happy, then I was willing to do that for her. She was so kind to me about the whole thing, and I gave her all my care and support.

I told her things that made her happy, and hopefully opened her eyes to so many amazing things in life. I told her she was the best thing to happen to me, and she agreed I was as well. I told her that she will accomplish any goal she has set in front of her because of her amazing dedication to get things done. I said she;d be able to do anything because of how smart and talented she was. I told her all of this while I was crushed inside. I was devastated, but I wanted to let her know that she has to do things that's best for her, and never let some one control her life. She told me that her grandma, who loved me but literally hates people, told her that I was such a nice boy and that she wont ever find someone as nice as me. She agreed with her statement, which made missing her hurt even more. She wants me to always be apart of her life, and maybe one day rekindle our special bond. However, I just want us back so much but I knew it wasn't going to happen.

So then I walked her to her car, gave her that last special hug, and sent her on her way. It was hard seeing her leave for which felt like the last time.

I guess the moral of this story is always appreciate the person you are with. Give them all your attention, your support, and kindness. Always treat them like a prince, or princess because they are. If you feel a special bond the way I did, please appreciate them while they are still here. They could be gone the next day and you wont know it. I always protected her from harm, made her laugh, told her all the things that make her so special, and made sure she was okay. Again, so what if it was a month. Its crazy how well you can connect with someone in such a short time. Everyday was like a magical journey walking beside her, holding her hand. I felt at peace finally, and I was okay with myself because she helped me do that. I didn't find myself in her, but with her. It was all so special, and its just so crazy that it ended so fast.

Please, do everything you can to appreciate the great things in your life not matter how small. Everything could be taken away from you in an instant, and it will make you feel lost and alone. Just be more appreciative of everything. Your house, your car, your bed, your family, etc. Just love everything you have while you still can, and I hope you guys enjoyed reading this rant. I will be okay, I always am. I just wanted to share something that will hopefully help you be appreciative.

Nemesis · **Posted:** Sat Aug 12, 2017 10:30 pm

;-; im sorry roldrames. you could always have my love

Shya · **Posted:** Sat Aug 12, 2017 10:33 pm

im here for you gold :(

Y S0 S3R10US · **Posted:** Sat Aug 12, 2017 10:45 pm

Hey dude, I feel for you I really do. I thank you for sharing your story. Even though I'm evidently younger than you I can understand that type of connection, and how hard it is to break away from that relationship. I can't offer any advice that will be useful as you have lived longer than I,
but I can say, she wants to stay friends with you! Which is awesome! I do hope that you recover from it, and in time if it is to be, your paths cross again.
Thank you for sharing your story and giving the community that advice, it truly means a lot. Thank you GoldGames.

Minion · **Posted:** Sun Aug 13, 2017 3:21 am

Same but worse

Geeza · **Posted:** Sun Aug 13, 2017 3:35 am

Damn bro this really sucks

Mr. Habibi · **Posted:** Sun Aug 13, 2017 5:20 am

That's why I'm single bro.

Just msg me if you wanna talk, I'm actually pretty good to talk to. ;-)

Central · **Posted:** Sun Aug 13, 2017 6:21 am

Ah man we've all been in this situation. I'm here if u needa talk. Maybe try again in the future perhaps when she's ready?

Jabs · **Posted:** Sun Aug 13, 2017 9:32 am

You supposed to be fucking bitches not falling in love

Link · **Posted:** Tue Aug 15, 2017 7:14 am

Stay positive Gold. Its the best you can do. Even if she isnt the one, as long as you keep trying youll find the right one.

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