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Hello everyone.
I have a question for all of you. Every one of you, and I was hoping for as many people to answer as i can get.
Do you or have you ever had a special place that you went? Like, a special place that you could just hangout and relax when you needed to clear your head? If you had a place like this, what made you enjoy it so much? Like, maybe it was by a river, or at a gazebo, or maybe some special cafe? Maybe you could see a beautiful view or enjoy some constant company, or even enjoy some nice drinks? Perhaps the lighting in the area made it a nice place to clear your head? Maybe it's because you have special memories from that place, such as that it's where you and your significant other had your first kiss, or where your parents took you when you were little? Maybe it was many things?
How often did/do you go there? Was it a usual place for you and the boyz/girlz? Was it an in-between place, that you went to before, and maybe between, work shifts/events? Or was it a place that you went to every month or every other month? Perhaps you've only been there a few times?
How would you describe that place when you remember it? What are the smells? What did it look like? How were the people (if any) there? Did it have music around on a regular basis? What sort of feelings did it evoke?
And, finally, do you think you would (or already do) miss that place if and when you moved?
I've been wanting to find a new "spot" where i can go to just chill out and enjoy some company. Maybe a cafe that people frequent, so I could meet some people, make some friends, and enjoy Indianapolis some more. I'm thankful i already have a "spot" i like to be in alone for some me time, but, I would like some human interaction too. :)
My current spot for me time is in my living room when it gets a little darker and most everyone is in bed. My living room is connected to the front door and the back door. Our back door is a glass door, and out of our back yard there is a lake that goes around the entire apartment complex. The lights and such reflect off of the water quite beautifully when it gets dark, and it's always beautiful to look at. At the same time, there's a little owl light that glows orange and heats up scented cubes. This makes it smell and look beautiful in the living room. Since I have the lights off every time I'm relaxing in there at night, it almost looks like a small fire in the room, which makes it super relaxing for clearing my head or just chilling. Usually when I want to clear my head, I'll put on some relaxing music and just sit there, thinking about life or whatever comes to mind. Whenever daytime comes around, I can just go out on my back porch and sit on a chair out there to relax as well, so that's an option for relaxing and clearing my head as well. All in all, I was lucky to have a house that I can relax in when I want to clear my head a little.
I'd definitely like to hear your thoughts though, and would appreciate any response I can get. C:
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Xanderian
