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| Author: | Central [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Ugh... it's that time for me. |
Hey! Well... I've recently been talking to a girl recently and we've decided to meet. When we do meet we plan to go to the cinema to watch the new kingsman, and I even offered to pay for her. The problem is that I'm a bit interested in this girl, and I'm worried that I'm gonna screw this up. I'm pretty sure I have anxiety about these things, and that I want myself to be happy and I've not even attempted nor recently been involved in girls for about over a year (apart from friends). I dunno, I just feel different about this girl. Yea I don't particularly post anything personal here, but some of you have relationships in here and maybe even good relationships, any advice? Tip: I am really bad at starting/making conversations. |
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| Author: | Terminator [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ugh... it's that time for me. |
i am the same central... i suck at having convos with girls i like/have a crush on and im shy when it comes down to it. but i found a solution. its a 5 steps plan: 1) go to the cinea with her 2) ask her to go for a drink after the movie 3)make her drunk 4)walk her home 5)lay her in bed and.....well ye, u know what to do then u leave, dirty pevs thougt i was gonna say fuck her, bad bad bad. well, just be relaxed and be yourself, if she likes u too then let it be for who you are and not for who u pretend to be. be honest and have fun, thats all that matters. don't think about consequences and only think about that moment and not about future hope that can help lol |
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| Author: | Central [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ugh... it's that time for me. |
Terminator wrote: i am the same central... i suck at having convos with girls i like/have a crush on and im shy when it comes down to it. but i found a solution. its a 5 steps plan: 1) go to the cinea with her 2) ask her to go for a drink after the movie 3)make her drunk 4)walk her home 5)lay her in bed and.....well ye, u know what to do then u leave, dirty pevs thougt i was gonna say fuck her, bad bad bad. well, just be relaxed and be yourself, if she likes u too then let it be for who you are and not for who u pretend to be. be honest and have fun, thats all that matters. don't think about consequences and only think about that moment and not about future hope that can help lol True true, I'll see what happens. I'm just well incredibly shy at these types of stuff. |
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| Author: | Terminator [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ugh... it's that time for me. |
look, what i said (second part) is attempt 1 if that doesnt work u go for 5 steps plan |
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| Author: | Tricky [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ugh... it's that time for me. |
Listen, show her your favorite anime waifu and tell her you know tricky batta bing batta boom. But seriously thou just relax, don't be to quiet, keep the mood good, make sure she's having fun and you're set. Try not to make things akward, being natural helps. |
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| Author: | Mr.GoldGames [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ugh... it's that time for me. |
Be you, and always appreciate her. Never rush into anything and go slow. Never underestimate the beauty of her personality, and always make her smile...do the things I regret not doing enough. |
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| Author: | Smiles [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ugh... it's that time for me. |
It's awkward on her side to but we are better at hiding it :) Just be you. Maybe after you greet her and say hi and ask about something you have talked about in the past. It's kinda weird cus we all give you tips but you don't really use them . If you and her get along well and "click" then the conversation will flow. Anyways just have fun, and have a great time at the movie! |
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| Author: | Ash [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ugh... it's that time for me. |
Mr.GoldGames wrote: Be you, and always appreciate her. Never rush into anything and go slow. Never underestimate the beauty of her personality, and always make her smile...do the things I regret not doing enough. This. Strong words, I agree |
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| Author: | Dyno [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ugh... it's that time for me. |
Mr.GoldGames wrote: Be you, and always appreciate her. Never rush into anything and go slow. Never underestimate the beauty of her personality, and always make her smile...do the things I regret not doing enough. This +1 Also don't bother discussing who's going to pay for what you said you've already offered steer away from that and talks of who's paying for what |
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| Author: | winter [ Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ugh... it's that time for me. |
To be honest, i never had dated a girl but liked a girl but never had the courage to ask her. Just take it slow and ask her what she likes, and if you like the samething. you have something in common. There's no such thing as perfect date, and if you're texting her, don't always text her everyday because she would eventually want some space alone. I'll say be flirty but not too overboard and be funny but the main point is be you, do things that seems right to you. Make her laugh and if shes feeling down you can comfort her. Don't be the guy who goes overboard with a date like buy her flowers and chocolates. |
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